Enfp Bullet
I found this on a website while researching some stuff, and found this highly entertaining, cause its totally true for the most part. The borderline gets in the way from some of these because of fear of rejection. http://forums.intpcentral.com/showthread.php?36927-ENFP-by-the-bullet-delivered-via-INTP
ENFP by the bullet, delivered via INTP
•Center of attention
•Generous with an unsaid, subtle expectation of attention in return
•Obsessive compulsive about orderliness
•Has a use for an INTP when their emotions are in a mess, where they will listen to and value the INTP, however afterwards will seemingly toss them aside & apologise or pretend the exchange never happened. They can also try and press the INTP's buttons to ensure that the INTP knows that they are the superior one afterall. This can distance the INTP - however no real grudges remain, as the INTP knows that this pedestal of perfection is unsustainable & an expression of insecurity. The INTP can also see this as self obsessive, and may not have thought any more about the interaction since.
•Competitive
•Jealous
•Communicative
•Funny (except when they're getting needy for attention then it becomes desperate, childish pleas for attention)
•Capable of intellectually engaging with an INTP, but generally look down on them for their lack of gregariousness
•Embarrassed at having valued the INTP thoughts, as they aren't delivered in feeling-coded ENFP terms
•Hypocritical: they can display the same behaviour to an INTP, however when the INTP views this as the rule, they then get hurt when the INTP does it back to them
•Generous: sometimes without expectation of return attention. The INTP can have a hard time accepting this generosity, as they can often feel undervalued by the ENFP. As such, the generosity can come across almost like a charitable gift
•Say they like being given to, but often when they are given to they won't accept it
•Dramatic. They can be victims when their values aren't met and they have to go on living in the world.
•Gotta skidaddle! After taking over the conversation and relating everything back to themselves if anything is said by anyone else that isn't in a fun way then they tend to excuse themselves. INTP is left feeling used.
•Inspirational: Great at making the INTP feel alive again and bringing out the fun side of things
•Creative: INTP can really respect the ENFP's creativity that is applied in so many different ways
•Respectful: INTP can also admire the ENFP's ability to achieve and get stuff done
ENFP by the bullet, delivered via INTP
•Center of attention
•Generous with an unsaid, subtle expectation of attention in return
•Obsessive compulsive about orderliness
•Has a use for an INTP when their emotions are in a mess, where they will listen to and value the INTP, however afterwards will seemingly toss them aside & apologise or pretend the exchange never happened. They can also try and press the INTP's buttons to ensure that the INTP knows that they are the superior one afterall. This can distance the INTP - however no real grudges remain, as the INTP knows that this pedestal of perfection is unsustainable & an expression of insecurity. The INTP can also see this as self obsessive, and may not have thought any more about the interaction since.
•Competitive
•Jealous
•Communicative
•Funny (except when they're getting needy for attention then it becomes desperate, childish pleas for attention)
•Capable of intellectually engaging with an INTP, but generally look down on them for their lack of gregariousness
•Embarrassed at having valued the INTP thoughts, as they aren't delivered in feeling-coded ENFP terms
•Hypocritical: they can display the same behaviour to an INTP, however when the INTP views this as the rule, they then get hurt when the INTP does it back to them
•Generous: sometimes without expectation of return attention. The INTP can have a hard time accepting this generosity, as they can often feel undervalued by the ENFP. As such, the generosity can come across almost like a charitable gift
•Say they like being given to, but often when they are given to they won't accept it
•Dramatic. They can be victims when their values aren't met and they have to go on living in the world.
•Gotta skidaddle! After taking over the conversation and relating everything back to themselves if anything is said by anyone else that isn't in a fun way then they tend to excuse themselves. INTP is left feeling used.
•Inspirational: Great at making the INTP feel alive again and bringing out the fun side of things
•Creative: INTP can really respect the ENFP's creativity that is applied in so many different ways
•Respectful: INTP can also admire the ENFP's ability to achieve and get stuff done
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